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15 YEAR JOURNEY
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Oct 24,2008 / CATEGORY: PERSONAL

Just a little over 15 years ago I came to this amazing country when I was 20. I came with 2 suitcases and $4000 in cash. My English was as good as Borat’s (I’m still learning) but I was determined to have my own life here completely on my own. It the beginning it was very hard for me, as I was used to the “mom does everything for me” treatment while living at home. I found out the hard way that you don’t mix whites with colored laundry. Once I enrolled at the Art Institute of Ft Lauderdale things started to get better. After graduating in 1996 I was faced with the question, stay here or go back to Germany. I decided to stay. During the years that followed I worked as a waiter, tourist guide, photographer and assisted many respected shooters and I also worked myself up the “dotcom” ladder. I started doing animated banners and websites for a few years. Now at least I can do all my own blog and website design.

Shortly after I was let go from a struggling “dotcom” in 2003 I met Candace who told me “if you are not going to work for other companies then you should get back to your first love…photography. And you better make it work”. Now 5 years later I think I made it work very well.

Last year I decided it was best for me to apply for US Citizenship as I don’t plan on going anywhere anytime soon. This past Saturday I took my oath along with 1500+ (mostly Cuban) people. It was a circus. Why not just simply send people the certificate of citizenship by mail? Why make them get up at 6:30am to go to an auditorium in Miami and sing patriotic songs (karaoke style) such as “God bless America” or “Welcome to America” by Niel Diamond and wave little US flags? I love this country and what it did for me and I am so blessed but what is up with all the patriotism? On paper I am US citizen but I will always be European, that is what will set me appart. Check out Candace’s view on that oath ceremony circus.

I want to thank Glenn and Anat (where ever you may be) for letting me sleep in your basement with your fat cat when I first arrived in the US and for helping me find my first apartment in New Jersey.

Big thank you to my immigration attorney Lisa Enfield (you sure made a bundle off of me) for all the visas. I think it’s safe to say that I had them all with extensions several times over.

I assisted many shooters, too many to list but one of them stood out and I think he changed something in me that made me work extra hard and look at things differently by humiliating me in front of clients and pushing me to do better. Architectural photography was never my thing but John Stillman’s personality and way of talking to clients is something I emulate today in my own business. He never paid me, he always told me “you don’t need money, I am teaching you stuff you will never learn in art school.”

Mr. Don Sheffield was the best instructor I had at the Art Institute. He made it clear that the photography to business ratio are 10:90. He is still there and I am honored each time he asks me to speak to one of his classes along with other leaders in the industry like fellow photographer Roy Llera.

Candace for believing in me and supporting me as much as she does. Candace IS Maloman Photographers, I just push buttons. Also for the all American apple pie to mark the occasion.

Finally my family for the support (and for paying my tuition, I promise I will pay it back one day) and for making this possible. I know my dad tried to bring us to Canada or USA several times when I was a kid but things did not work out. Today I am the first in my family to come to this country and the first to become a US citizen, so in a way my dad did succeed. It’s been a 15 year journey and I am looking forward to the future. I am just starting.

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Aysegul:
First of all Congratulations! 15 years will turn into 30 only in a matter of time. I came here at the age of 8 and 20 years just flew by. I became a citizen at 18 and know how outstanding of a feeling it is! As my mom as GOD BLESS America for all the wonderful oppurtunities it has presented all of us! Love your photos they are just magnificient! (December 24th, 2008 9:43 PM)
Melissa:
"Great success" Stephan (please read in Borat's accent, lol) Despite the struggles you may have gone through its nice to see how thankful you are...many congratulations on your merit and those who helped along the way! (November 1st, 2008 10:39 AM)
Frank:
Congratulations, great story, you really have reason to be proud ! ....and the circus....well, does it really matter ? It has certainly its roots in the tradition of 1776, why not ? As a citizen of good old europe we have a lot of strange circus as well....look at france, germany, italy....anyhow: Its great to have the possibility lof learning from several culrures...like you have ! (October 31st, 2008 7:21 PM)
Natalie P.:
whooooo hoooooo This is great news!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want a piece of that pie. yummmmmooooooooo ;) (October 27th, 2008 6:45 PM)
gilcelia:
hi stephan! congrats on your citizenship! my story is similar to yours except i arrived here 10 years ago from brazil, i haven't become a citizen yet (next year), and i'm just starting my photography biz (hopefully someday i'll get to be as awesome as you and candace). life as an immigrant is interesting, and i loved how you told your story in an open and honest way, i can certainly relate to a lot of it. here's to another 15 years of success and happiness... cheers! gil (October 27th, 2008 1:55 PM)
Elmis:
Congratulations (October 27th, 2008 1:29 PM)
Ly:
Congratulations Stephan! I never got to experience the patriotic cheesiness involved in taking the oath since my parents made me an American Citizen when they became one. I can just imagine a lot of immigrants slaughtering the words to "Proud to be an American", LOL. I'm sure your journey will just keep getting better! (October 25th, 2008 4:35 PM)
Elsa:
Congratulations! I too recently became a US Citizen and I totally agree with the "lame circus" comment.. I've been visiting your blog since around this time last year (I love your work!) However, this post ( although very personal to you) touched my heart and reminded me of my own story. THANK YOU. note : that the little white paper the flag came wrapped in said 'Made in China' lol (October 25th, 2008 12:29 AM)
Roy Llera:
Stephan- Congratulations on this tremendous news, great post, some wonderful history. For those Cubans, after living through Communism it's one big moment, patriotic because in many ways they don't have a country to call their own. It may have been a circus...last time I was at the circus I had a great time. I think you had a great time to the other day, it's all part of your life experience. Congratulations...Yankee! (October 24th, 2008 11:28 PM)
Dawn:
Congrats! Enjoy that delicious looking apple pie and your weekend in Mexico! (October 24th, 2008 10:55 PM)
Joe Wolenski:
Pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps. I love it. Free market capitalism. I enjoy hearing stories like yours. (October 24th, 2008 9:07 PM)
Brigitte:
Incredible story! Loved this blog. It was extremely refreshing! Congrats on your citizenship! Sorry about the lame circus. I've heard stories. (October 24th, 2008 5:13 PM)
Matt:
I just wanted to say congratulations! (October 24th, 2008 2:14 PM)
Pam Arendall-Arnais:
ok, you just made me cry and feel guilty for feeling so frustrated with my country that I want to leave sometimes. congratulations again on your new citizenship! (October 24th, 2008 2:00 PM)
      
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